THE WORD QUOTA AND TALKING....

Okay i know the picture NO LINK uh but cool wat...

Words are used as a form of communication amongst ourselves....
It can be used to educate, praise or even hurt someone

There's even a malay saying that "Words can be sharper than the tip of a sword"

Some words are simple and concise such as CAT while others like LOVE have a deeper, unexplainable subjective confusing meaning.....

But Did You Know that Research has shown: We have a "Word Quota'' to meet each day

Men generally speak about 2,000-4000 while a women speaks 6,000-8,000 words each day on average (Although im certain my mum speaks more than that! and SOME guy friends YOU KNOW WHO U ARE) Men, bond and communicate by sharing long periods of silence and occasional name-calling, whereas women bond by gossiping, processing things and sharing emotional insights. That explains why men are never able to tell women details about their outing with their guy friends cos they dont really talk! This also shows that to have a succesful relationship, there must be a compromise of sharing silences COMFORTABLY and conversations which is not naggy...

So here i wish to complaint that as humans! who so call wish to understand animals or other creatures in order to save them la wat la should start by understanding EACH OTHER! When a guy (UR future husband or son or watever la) doesn't want to talk about his day when he gets home? ITS not because he's rude, boring, angry etc BUT maybe tired though AND its because he has already MET and Fulfilled his daily word quota! Its more of a scientific biological thing. So dont piss us off and just shut up!!! and let us stock up our ammunition first!

And as a guy....now i understand why my mum nags and nags and nags......

I recently, (its RECENTLY so dun u guys go calling me hypocrite cos i used to lepak ALOT anw) realised Lepak (malay word for sit down and chat about random stuff) is a WASTE OF TIME unless it's to catch-up with friends or discuss issues-like whether love exist? haha......

NOT as a routine event thingy fr small talks or chats......cos seriosly, time is precious, You can do more useful stuff like eat? sleep? instead (sleep is not a waste of time cos its necesssary! fr health and rest!)

Time flies nowadays and its NOT JUST A FEELING you and I feel, But its a fact and a current sign of Qiyamat (judgement day) and even the Prophet s.a.w taught us not to talk unnecessarily.

SOOOOOOOOOOOO STOP!

Personally i choose people uh....some people i can talk ALOT some people haiz, only crickets chirps....(WTH?! but the cricket chirps sounds so philosophical! so im gonna leave it there) and im sure my best friends will agree that i talk ALOT (just like i rant here) as in more then some might even imagine but thats just with a handful of people...to others, im generally concise and a man of few words, i ussually think more instead of talk CHEY!!! hahah like this malay saying "Someone who is noisy (talks alot) is ussually empty!!! in the brain department!"

So i hope this post may be an inspiration fr YOU to shut up! hahahahah bye!